Embracing my inner sonuvabitch. I'm a writer, musician, and professional dad. If you are an artist looking for a comic to draw, send me a message. If you are a really awesome person and want a new friend, send me a message as well.
or macaroni and cheese.
go on and unfollow, but first, realize how wrong it is.
“When a man starts my program, he often says, ‘I am here because I lose control of myself sometimes. I need to get a better grip.’ I always correct him: 'Your problem is not that you lose control of yourself, it’s that you take control of your partner. In order to change, you don’t need to gain control over yourself, you need to let go of control of her.’ A large part of his abusiveness comes in the form of punishment used to retaliate against you for resisting his control. This is one of the single most important concepts to grasp about an abusive man.”